Sit at a Table Where You Speak About Ideas and Dreams—Not People!
The people we surround ourselves with will shape the trajectory of our lives. Friends who inspire us, challenge us, and believe in our potential are among the most valuable influences we can have. When we choose to spend time with those who speak about ideas, growth, dreams, and goals, we’re not just choosing better conversations—we’re choosing a better future. These are the people who light a fire within us, who remind us of what’s possible, and who help us become who we’re meant to be.
Inspiring friends don’t waste time tearing others down. Instead, they build each other up through meaningful dialogue. Conversations about ideas spark creativity and innovation. They invite us to think beyond the ordinary and to explore new ways of seeing the world. Whether it’s a late-night discussion about a passion project or a spontaneous brainstorm over coffee, these moments fuel our imagination and push us to dream bigger.
Growth is another hallmark of empowering relationships. When we talk about personal development, we open ourselves to learning, reflection, and transformation. Friends who value growth will challenge us to confront our limitations, celebrate our progress, and keep moving forward—even when it’s hard. These conversations are often tough for our ego, but are filled with honesty and vulnerability, and can lay the foundation for real change.
Dreams are the soul’s way of reaching for something greater and sharing them with the right people can be life-changing. When we speak our dreams aloud in the presence of those who believe in us, they begin to feel more real. These friends don’t laugh at our ambitions—they nurture them. They ask questions, offer encouragement, and sometimes even dream alongside us. In doing so, they help us stay connected to our purpose.
But dreams need direction, and that’s where goals come in. Talking about goals turns inspiration into action. It’s about setting intentions, making plans, and holding each other accountable. Friends who talk about goals are often the ones who check in, cheer us on, and remind us of our “why” when we feel like giving up. These conversations are practical, but they’re also deeply motivating.
Choosing to sit at a table where the focus is on ideas, dreams, and goals is a conscious decision to live with intention. It’s about curating a circle that uplifts rather than drains, that inspires rather than distracts. When we surround ourselves with people who speak life into our aspirations, we don’t just grow—we thrive. And in turn, we become the kind of people who inspire others to do the same.
So, choose your table wisely,
Until next time,
Scott and Lennart